In the beginning this article was going to be themed something along the lines of what it’s like to be an Asian male porn star, a little more biographical context, and what Asian American males are facing in the dating world.
How does an Asian male porn star, and especially one where race is a big part of who you are, end up in the end?
So now I’m going to make an unexpected segue into how all of this has affected my life. Maybe as a guy who has been living the past few years with his dick being a central part of nearly everything, I’m overemphasizing things a bit. I got to live life free from that one thing that every single one of my fellow Asian American males suffers from on at least some level - an emasculating inequality bred by a small dick stereotype. And in the context of modern day America as an Asian guy, it’s a spotlight that shines a very different shade than it would anyone else. Becoming well known for largely one thing, that you “have a big dick,” is just about the most insane thing to gain popularity from.